"when I am feeling blue, all I have to do, is take a look at you.. then I am not blue..."PHIL COLLINS. Groovy kind of love
yes, dear friends, when you're feeling blue, all you have to do is take a look at somebody. could be your best friends, or the one I just think about is take a look at yourself, actually.. well, what's written above is right, of course. becoz then you have someone to rely on. someone to tell what you have to do, someone who encourage you, someone besides you.. but what if you are alone, in other country, nobody around you, and at the same time, you feel blue? what will you do??
take a look at somebody's special is impossible, because he or she is far away, so, what will you do?
refers to the first sentence above, let's change it into..
"when I am feeling blue, all I have to do, is take a look at ME, then I am not so blue"
what i mean by ME here is that you refers to yourself. take a look at yourself, but you have to pretend that you are looking at somebody else.. you have to reflect yourself to yourself. that's what you need.
well, it is okay that everybody needs somebody..but hey, if you can rely on yourself, why do on earth you have to rely on somebody else? if you can do it yourself, why on earth you need somebody else to do it for you?
it's not a matter of selfishness. it is a matter of self-support.. yes, of course you can rely on somebody else..well, you have to.. but sometimes, when you feel blue and nobody's around, what you can do is take a look at yourself. looking at yourself as a two people.. not like just a body. but a body with two minds.. so, you can talk to yourself and have everything's done by yourself.
yeah i know it is difficult, it's not something express to learn. but i promise you.. once you can do this, you'll be happy.. in one side, you know yourself better and as an addition, you are not depends on somebody else.. it makes you a tough person..
yes, you may cry...yes, you may, of course...but again.to stand up and keep moving on.. that's the most important..
you can have many ways to deal with your feeling, but why don't you try to do this one? this is an effective way to get yourself together even when you're not with the one you love..
so guys, you need to turn to yourself.. and again,last but not least.. AL..